I don't want to say too much more because I'm afraid of being judged like I have been on other sites.
She's 1200 miles away because she chose to move 25 years ago. I was just there 3 months ago and found her physically & mentally capable of living independently and was even driving friends to their doctors appointments.
She's laying a big guilt trip on me and I am finding myself feeling resentful. I have A LOT on my plate which she is well aware of and if she truly needed care somehow I would step up to the plate but just because she doesn't want any responsibilities anymore why do I have to take them on when I have far too many of my own. I feel like I could have a nervous breakdown.
Can anyone relate?