In short, Father-in-Law has been having issues lately where he doesn't want to get cleaned up after soiling himself and the bed. He doesn't want anyone messing with him, trying to get him up out of bed; he just wants to be left alone, all day, in soiled clothing. Wants to sit at the table and eat that way, and sit in his cloth recliner that way. Should we just give him his dinner in bed and ignore things? We have tried explaining that we are just trying to keep him healthy and get him cleaned up, showered, fed, and meds taken. Now he is taking to not wanting to take his meds. I'm not sure what to do at this point. He has early/moderate Alzhimer's.