I fell like my heart is going to break. He has become very vicious with me. had to call 911 on Saturday=again on Monday. They didn't admit him to hospital. WHY?? Was told if I refused to tke him home.- state would ake over guardianship. ery quickly losing it!
A friend recently placed his wife and it was an excruciating decision for him. His wife had become combative and aggressive and was wandering. It was hard for him to comes to grips with he was not able to keep her safe any longer and that his wife would not want the constant care of her the sole responsibility to fall to him.
I can understand your heart is breaking, he's not the same person you had married, and it's not his fault, it's that darn disease. Once he is in a nursing home, you can take a long deep breathe and be able to sleep at night.... then as ba8alou had said above, you can visit him and advocate for him to get the best of care.