My Dad recently passed away, and he did not think it was OK for him to wear his uniform and cap until about 10 yrs. ago. After that, he wore it with great pride. One of the daughters of a friend told me that their father had someone come out and play "Taps" as well as 2 soldiers to fold the flag. She didn't know how that had happened because another sister made the arrangements. Is that really possible? Thank you very much!
The American Legion post local to the OP is the way to go. They were wonderful at my father's memorial service and on short notice which is the way it usually goes. It was winter so we didn't get to witness the 21 gun salute, but Taps were played and my mother was formally presented with the flag. It was very moving and honorable. I encourage you to contact them ktyldy952.
My condolences on the passing of your father. ((Hugs))
pam, i was of the impression that military rites were done at gravesite . you dont blow bugles and fire rifles inside a mortuary .
i dont care for ceremonial crap personally . in indiana i can be " green " buried in my own little orchard if i get the proper permits . im pretty cheap , id like that .