How can i makes sure the new poa laws are being carried out by my mothers lawyer and brother- who said he was now the me dpoa but i had been caring for mom and she wanted me to be med poa for oer 13 yrs?
i found out the poa wasnt changed-but he said it was- he put his name on when he took her out of state and put her in nh-
I always wondered why father got Guardianship and Not POA. I just recently read here that Guardianship is better in that the person who is named Guardian (by doctor's letter, lawyer and court documented) has firmer control of finances, etc. I know that father has financial, land-wise and medically is mom's Guardian. Whereas a POA can be changed. Does that make sense?
As for making sure the new POA is carried out - only the legal POA can ensure that. Court and police and elderly abuse organizations will not interfere unless there is obvious signs of danger to self or others. I may be wrong but this is what I've been reading on the different threads here. I have absolutely no experience on this. So sorry but I was hoping someone with experience would answer your question.
i dont think that there is really anything i can do about this-
its just so hard to accept it and let it go- uknow?
so frustrating-and infuriating and painful-
love to u
k
People can easily change their POA from one person to another or take it away all together.