My uncle manages my grandmother's money while she is in a nursing home. Recently, he got mad at my Mom and Aunt who do not live locally. He told the nursing home to ban calls from them, me, and my sister. HE will allow visits though. Can he do that? It's her money. She's 96 and of sound mind. I have a disability making to very hard for me to get to the nursing home. I did make it this week and she immediately recognized me and was happy to see me. I didn't tell her what he's done. So, again, can he prevent calls to her?
Your grandmother should meet with the admins herself at make it clear she wishes to remain in contact with all of you, if you could arrange a meeting with all the parties involved it would be even better.