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Hey guys, so my mom recently went to a rehabilitation place to stay for 4 nights to give me a break from taking care of her. They wanted us to bring all of her medicines but just enough for the stay. I called tonight to check on her and they said they had to give her morphine to calm her down. I sent her with 6 adavan 1mg (she went in Thursday afternoon) and I'm guessing she's out. I'm so mad!!! We've NEVER given her the morphine it's just for just for later when the time does come where she's in pain. Can the give her the morohine to calm her down? I'm in South Carolina if that matters.

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A doctor must have prescribed the morphine, but that seems excessive to me as a nurse. I would not use this facility again for your respite.
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It will be easier to address your concerns if you can tell us more about your mother.
As pam said the rehab center can give a patient any medications that are legally prescribed.
It sounds as though she may be a hospice patient and some hospices do supply drugs that may be needed as the patient's decline continues. Morphine for pain is one of those drugs.
Many people especially those with dementia become agitated when moved from their usual surroundings so as the morphine was prescribed and available it sounds perfectly reasonable to use.
Many rehab facilities do not have a pharmacy available or a Dr on the premises. It may take at least 24 hours to get a medication prescribed and delivered.
Try and stop being mad and be thankful that the staff used their common sense and the medication available to soothe your mother rather than let her agitation continue.
A dose of morphine at the end of life does not an addict make, but you are right to be vigilant.
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Wow, this sounds familiar... My mother was in rehab after a hospital stay in late 2014. With her dementia, the change in environment created a lot of restlessness and anxiety. This particular facility gave her Oxycontin - and she was so heavily sedated, she appeared to be dying. I am convinced that if we'd left her there, she'd be long-dead by now. She is now a permanent resident in a nursing facility that operates by the "less-is-more" approach, where medications are given in conservative doses (and NO opiates for behavior problems!). Hopefully you have choices where you live, and you can opt for a better place next time.
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As I read more of the comments, I am so sorry these facilities are giving your loved ones morphine or gave them this powerful pain killer. Even without dementia, I would be "anxious" in an unfamiliar environment, strangers and having my routine broken. With my husband, when he starts to get agitated, I change the scenery. I recently bought a 35 yr. old golf cart, he used to play golf and we get the dogs in it and all of us go up to the golf course and ride around. The fresh air, green surroundings and geese/ducks in the lake calms him down. When we arrive back home he is fine. I am sure he remembers having played golf worldwide. Find what your loved one used to do and do it instead of drugs.
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They can give meds as prescribed by the MD. Ativan (lorazepam) only works for 4 hours, so I can see where that got used up. I will guess they checked with the MD and got a complete list of Rx's.
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I agree with ferris1!! Saw Dad die Nov.2, 2015 and they started to give him morphine almost as soon as I signed the hospice papers because he wanted to go to the bathroom himself! Sorry I am still up-set. I am going to your profile. Have not looked at it yet.
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Jeannie finally a voice of reason! I wonder where OP has got to?
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If I say anything about morphine I am afraid that saw hospice organization will put me on a hit list. I saw what they did to my Father and can not sleep at night because of the images in my mind. It is hard to understand unless you are there! We all want to trust the medical field but have to realize that when they can no longer make money on you they Kind of put you down so to speak. I am sure that morphine is sometimes used correctly but with the new medical system that we have and Medicare wanting to save money the elderly are at risk. My husband and I would be considered the elderly now. 60 to about 75 is the golden years and above seem to be the rusted years. Sorry
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Morphine is usually prescribed for pain. It has addictive properties as well. There might be some physicians who might prescribe it to calm fear and anxiety but I certainly would question that decision.With so many other meds to use for calming why did they chose this drug? Would the other drugs she takes have been a factor? Since it is not clear what Moms condition is I also am curious why she went to a "rehab" center so you could get respite. It is good that you got that respite as it is always needed for the caregiver, I agree with ferris1.....I would never use a facility that would prescribe morphine as a drug to calm someone down. I also would not want to deal with a facility or doctor that does not have the professional courtesy to inform the primary caregiver that they are prescribing such an addictive opiate.
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Oxycotin! This is like Heroin. I agree, facility can only give meds if Dr. allows.
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