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You need to stop. Really. You ignore every suggestion and any practical advice you're given.

The problem isn't your mother. It's with you. As long as you continue to play her games and I think a few of your own, nothing can improve or change with your situation.
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Ocdtrauma70 Sep 2023
I did not ignore every suggestion. I went to the police, blocked phonecalls, changed emails, and have not spoken with her in a year. I took advice. I watched videos for alanon. Detaching her problems, my problems.
I've done quite a lot! I've stopped sending her money. I won't see her.
But she emails my work constantly from 5 emails, pretend emails. I guess the next thing I have to do is just delete. Hard to not see my voicemail full on my phone. It's all blocked. Have not answered one of 250 voicemails.
I guess there is nothing other than to accept to call police if she shows up.
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Or answering emails, listening to voicemails, filed a restraining order?
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Ocdtrauma70 Sep 2023
Right, I do listen, and read occasionally. Can't file a restraining order until she is in my jurisdiction.
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Have you stopped giving her money?
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