I told her to rely on grandchildren. I am burnt out but feel guilty. She brought up my health issues that made me feel so hurt. I live 15 mi away Im a nurse and the issues were her frequent er visits and medication.Any suggestions ? my therapist told me to back off for my sake . I told one granddaughter and now she's mad.
Step away and either let others step up or let her find out that she needs a different path.
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Also, I'm failing to put these bits together straight: you were hurt by her ?accusing you of not coming up to scratch with taking her to ER and assisting with her medications? I'm not sure where the hurt is, or why you're burnt out (with this relative or with other family burdens too?), or where the therapist comes into it.
To solve the not speaking for two weeks, simple: pick up the phone and tell her what's on your mind.
But why, exactly, are you keen to resolve the argument? How would you like your family relationships to be, looking ahead?
You state that she's a relative; what relation is she to you?