My mom appointed her roomate in Texas, I live in Missouri. Her roommate put her in a hospice facility in TX. I want to bring her home to MO and take care of her in my home. hospice will come in and help. i work from home taking care of people part time with disabilities. i have a nice home , a room for mom, and my sister and daughter are ready to help. the lady that has medical poa of mom, owns the house and rents mom a bedroom .. i dont know how long my mom has ,so i need to get it fixed this week and get her home
Have you spoken to the main hospice nurse?
I'm wondering as well how it happened that your mother ended up just renting a room when you have a house in which you care for others. It seems to me that your mother would have been a higher priority than strangers, even if you were paid for caring for them.
As others wrote, it's only your mother who can change someone designated to act under a DPOA. You actually have no rights under it if you're not so named.
I have the sense that there's more going on to the reason why your mother is renting a room in another state but now you want to bring her back. Those reasons likely need to be addressed before it would be prudent and/or safe for your mother to return, especially if she needs hospice care. Moving her in her condition might cause undue anxiety and/or trauma.
Perhaps you could just rent a room in the home in which your mother is living and stay with her until the end; it might be a lot easier on her.