I wrote asking how I can cope with wishing my mom would die? Got 29 responses, but can only see 21 of them. I tried clicking "see all responses" that didn't work. Can't get past 21. And I gave more information earlier today about the details of my situation with my mother. Would really like to see the responses to the new info. Thanks.
My mother has written up a special needs trust. The problem is that she has many more expense than her social security income. She is partly living on savings in the bank. Some of her expenses are paying car insurance and gas for brother. Letting him use her credit card. Buying steak for him to cook since he won't eat chicken or hotdogs anymore. And doesn't want hamburgers cause of all the recalls. I put a few hundred dollars in her bank account once in a while but I don't have a lot of extra money.
So your mom is trying to leave your mentally challenged brother set? Has she looked into doing a Special Needs trust for him?