Mom has been in assisted living for 2 months. She has stopped packing her things but she still talks about going home often. She really likes the people at the AL center and it is obvious that she is making friends and forming relationships. She has vascular dementia, so many times she believes that she has known some of the people there for a very long time. When friends and family call, I hear her tell that she will be home soon, but she doesn't beg to go home. She talks about going home as if in the future but has stopped demanding to go home immediately. Is she really adjusting or is this just wishful thinking on my part?
She likes the people and forming relationships, what a blessing for both of you. Relax and know you have done the right thing. I believe the not packing is a really positive sign.
I am happy for you! Congratulations and continued best wishes!