My mother has dementia that is progressing quickly. We are anticipating having to place her where she can get the care she needs. When they review her finances and see that she took money out to pay those off will that be an issue to place her somewhere?
It really all depends on how much money she has and where you place her.
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Does mom have 200/300K to be able to private pay? Average NH stay is 2 years. Plus $ to fully pay off CC debt?
OR Does mom have a LTC policy that will pay for a facility & does she have the funds to pay NH once policy maximum is used? & fully pay off CC debt?
OR is family going to private pay for her care for the rest of her lifetime?
will mom or family pay the 20% copay for Medicare charges?
If the answers are "not really", then mom is likely to be applying for Medicaid to pay for her care & pay the gaps that medicare does not pay. Once on Medicaid, moms income will need to become her required copay or SOC (share of cost) to the facility. Mom will have no funds to pay her life insurance ( if she still has premiums); pay any costs on her home (if she still has a home); pay for dental, eyeglasses, hearing aids; funeral or burial policies. Mom will have only a small PNA - personal needs allowance - that varies by state from $35-105 a month. For my mom in TX it was $60 a mo & really just enough to pay for on site beauty salon & some clothing replacement. All other costs will need to be paid by family.
You may find that rather than paying off her CC (which is unsecured debt), it is a better use of limited funds to get a fully prepaid medicaid compliant funeral & burial policy; dental work; paying off in full any term life insurance policies; new eyeglasses (couple of pairs as these just walk in a NH); new hearing aids; a really nice walker or wheelchair as the ones on Medicaid are the most miminal; and a new more suitable wardrobe.( My moms once lovely wardrobe was pretty well gone within 6 mos of NH high heat wash & dry; really if I'd known I would have done a good bit of spend down on lots of sturdy fabric, easy care clothes & several pairs of shoes and just set them aside till needed.) If mom owns a home & it's going to be sold, then spending funds to make it market ready is a good use of funds as well. To me in my experience, it better to spend down on things that have a direct benefit for the elder rather than a CC company.
Really if $ are limited, take a realistic look at all this to decide where best spent. The CC will be relentless in trying to collect, but there is little they can do as its unsecured debt. Moms SS is fully protected from seizure or attachments by CC. Only super creditors (IRS) can touch SS income. It's not like mom is going to buy a car or needs a good credit score anymore. Good luck in all this as there are hard decisions to be made.
Really all this can get to be complex, using funds for a good elder law attorney and FA that understands how Medicaid works is very worthwhile.
It's with their local credit union so I'm not really sure how aggressive they would be anyway in trying to collect; they already know what was behind it in the first place. Their concern is them attaching his private pension, which is basically what they're using to pay it anyway but which is also hurting them from being able to get any help to pay for help but they won't use it either, which I suppose if they didn't pay on this credit card they might go after it but I just don't see that and I don't see them needing any more credit; think they are probably on their last vehicle; he doesn't drive and she doesn't much and even as of today they probably aren't going to need credit anymore anyway; at least if they'd use the money they do have.
Now I hadn't thought about the tax implications in their situation; that might be an issue.
The reason that credit card debt carries a much higher interest rate than debt secured by a mortgage, for example, is precisely because the lender/credit card company is accepting the much higher risk that it won't be paid back by some people. FYI, children have no legal obligation to pay parents' credit card debts BUT neither can children (or grandchildren/other family members) benefit from their parents' assets at the expense of the taxpayers. Public assistance from taxpayers, such as Medicaid, is NOT available so as to allow one to pass money or property to family members! I think an elder lawyer will tell you that, UNLIKE paying for a grandson's insurance policy or transferring ownership to a son of a double wide, paying off credit card date does NOT affect Medicaid eligibility.
That said, if the elder's future needs are likely to include new eye glasses, new (replacement) clothing/shoes, dental work and/or funeral/burial costs, those will not be provided by Medicaid and the elder will either go without them or the family will have to pay for them. OR, these things for the elder's care CAN BE purchased legitimately with their savings (with some limitations; ask the lawyer) any time during the five year period Medicaid "looks back" to determine eligibility, including right now which seems likely to be towards the end of that five year "look back" period. Will your parents' future needs be BETTER SERVED by pre-purchased burial insurance, having needed dental work done now and purchasing a reasonable supply of clothing and extra pairs of eyeglasses more than they will be HARMED by a poor credit rating?
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But money you spend on a credit card is real money, that you are borrowing and which you have undertaken to pay back. All things being equal, you should treat the debt as prior expenditure and deduct it from her capital when you draw up her balance sheet.
Consideration of the possibility of a community spouse and their future support is also a driving factor.
As in the case by 'debdaughter' about 5 past on this thread:
They probably can liquidate the IRA in part ,or whole. and with medical expenses reducing tax hit. A FUNERAL TRUST, is an immediate approved Medicaid Spend down. It does need to, and should not be purchased at a funeral home, additional trusts can be purchased for siblings as an approved Medicaid spend down, these particularly should NOT be tied to a funeral home to avoid risk and provide PORTABILITY.!
There are approved ways to apply and "shorten" penalty period,
needless to say the IRA is an asset, which if not dealt with will merely become a part of spend down, and nothing left to pay the final expenses they mistakenly think that it it will
While debt is also a spend down, serious review is in order to decide what to pay
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Shadow hasn't posted as to whether mom's assets are 10K or 100K, or if there's a house owed outright or has a mortgage, etc.; or just what the $ituation i$.
But whatever the case, once on Medicaid, moms income will need to become her required copay or SOC (share of cost) to the facility. Mom will have NO funds to pay any preexisting debt - whether its CC, or life insurance ( if she still has premiums); pay any costs on her home (if she still has a home); pay for dental, eyeglasses, hearing aids; funeral or burial policies. Mom will have only a small PNA - personal needs allowance - that varies by state from $35-105 a month. PNA is just enough to maybe cover beauty shop & perhaps phone or cable.
Family may find that rather than paying off her CC (which is unsecured debt), it is a better use of mom's asset spend-down to get a fully prepaid medicaid compliant funeral & burial policy; dental work; paying off in full any term life insurance policies if possible; new eyeglasses, new hearing aids, a really nice walker or wheelchair as all these on Medicaid are the most miminal; and a new more suitable wardrobe that will withstand the high heat laundry of the NH. If mom owns a home & it's going to be sold, then spending funds to make it market ready (& maximize house value or make it market competitive) is a good use of funds as well. And spend on getting mom's legal updated as needed.
To me in my experience, if they are going to be on Medicaid and have to do a spend-down, it's better to spend down on things with direct benefit for the elder rather than a CC company. IF you have to make a choice due to limited funds
Lets say Shadow's mom is 80 & has 30K in savings & lives in an apt & has 25K in CC debt. Mom fell broke both hips. Mom goes to NH for rehab (a Medicare benefit) and it's obvious she will need to move into skilled nursing care for the rest of her life in the NH section of the facility. Mom has done no advanced planning. So what to do with the 30K to qualify for Medicaid? - mom could pay the 25K in CC debt and then just be left with 5K as her total assets. OR mom could set aside 2K for the maximum allowed by Medicaid as an asset; get a prepaid NCV funeral & burial 10K; get much needed dental work 10K; get legal done (will, DPOA & MPOA) 1K; new eyeglasses & hearing aids & special wheelchair 4K; new clothes that work for someone who is now bedridden 2K; her final mo. apt rent and getting her things removed 1K. That's 30K right there and all a direct benefit for mom's long term.
What would you spend the 30K on?