My sibling from 3000 miles away is objecting to my financial arrngement with my mom of $1500 per month for mom to live with me and my family. I have had the full responsibility of my bipolor mom and her household for the last 2 year uncompensated and cannot do that anymore. The doctor wants her at my home or in a nursing home. What does everyone think?
I doubt they will take you up on that offer. Because they are narcissists.
Those who care not for their parents, know nothing about what it takes to do so and are not qualified to give their two cents.
In your profile it would like your Mom is of sound mind - I mean ,no dementia- so I think if she is OK with it than that should be enough.
Just my thoughts. Good luck!