I am joint owner on my mother's checking account and also her Executor of her will. Upon her death, I become owner of the joint checking account. The probatable asset is her house. I plan to share the remaining funds from the checking account with my sisters who are also heirs to her will. Would it be better to just gift the share of of the funds to them or put the money into the estate account which would then make those funds probatable. None of the assets or funds are enough to cause estate taxes, inheritence taxes or gift taxes. My two sisters and I are the only heirs on the will so there would be no squabbles with which either way I would disperse the checking account funds.
About the house, if it is the only asset (which it sounds like) look into IF your state allows for "MUNIMENT OF TITLE". A muniment action is kinda like probate "lite" or low-cal version of full probate. If they have a valid will, and their only real asset for probate is the house (or a house & a car) and you are indicated as the executrix in the valid will and the will specifically names who gets the property and they are all still alive, you can file for a muniment to be able to legally have the property released and transfer the title of the property to whomever is indicated as per the will. Maybe 3 visits to the courthouse to file documents (usually no hearings) and if you reside in the county where the property is, you likely can do this yourself if you are comfortable in dealing with courthouse, and understand how property needs to be filed, etc. Muniment has a time frame in which to do, 6 months seems to be the norm and you have to have it all done within this short time frame too otherwise you have to go back and do full probate. Now some states do require an attorney to do anything probate, so find out if that is the case for you.
i'm assuming mom was NOT on Medicaid. If she was, that is a whole other set of issues to get past to be able to transfer the property. Medicaid, yes or no?
So say the Mary's will gives her home to her two kids which Mary owns outright, the probate judge will award the property so that the title is release to them 50-50. Then the kids can sell the house but they both have to sign off to do so. If there is still a mortgage, then the mortgage will have to be paid off before the title to the property is released. Probate has all sorts of requirements and costs. If there is a good bit of an estate, it will take months or years to close out probate properly. Really you do need an attorney to do this for you as it can get complicated.
But some states allow for an alternative to doing probate. Some states allows for a "small estates affidavit" and others allow for a "muniment of title" and some have other actions or multiple other ways to divest of assets without doing full probate.
Muniment of Title - if your state allows for this action - is an easy and relatively simpler way to legally transfer the ownership of the owned-outright home to whomever is named in their will to get the property. For some elderly, their only asset is their home and if there is no outstanding debt, then their executrix can do a MUNIMENT rather than going full probate. Muniment costs maybe $ 700.00 to 1K which is loads cheaper than full probate. You have to still do filings @ the courthouse but usually no hearings (and courtroom time & cost) and at the end you get whatever is legally needed to own the property so you can sell it or keep it.
A better arrangement is to have the account in your mother's sole name, with all three children as Pay On Death (POD) beneficiaries, and then give just you a power of attorney to access the account via check, etc.
i'm assuming it's the annual property tax. If property taxes, did it ever go to tax sale and how long ago & how many times?
or does the county deal with a deferral in a different way…like do they do some sort of conveyance which is filed or recorded against the property?
A lein has to be lifted or released before you can sell or properly transfer the ownership from her (her estate) to anyone else. Sometimes this is simply going to courthouse & into assessors office and paying the amount, interest (which can be significant) and fees and then walk the receipt over to the county clerk or chancery clerk's office or wherever they record land records. Then they record it and show the released lein so the property can be properly transferred to another. But sometimes it can be more complicated especially if it's a conveyance that was done. You should call the assessors office and ask what step-by-step needs to be done & also how they accept payment. Many assessors will not take a check if anything is in arrears or require a waiting period for the check to clear.
Good luck and please do post how everything is going.