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You would need to set up an appointment at the County Probate Office immediately to do the necessary paperwork. It will be up to the County to decide who gets what. You will need to list all of the assets that the parent had as of the date of death. The Probate Office will guide you.
The sibling who spending the parent's money, may find herself needing to give that money back until after the Probate is finished, which can take months.
Usually for intestate deaths (no valid will so probate cannot be easily opened with executor appointed), all assets "escheat" to the state. So family will need to establish lineal heirship to have assets distributed as per your state laws. Whatever system your state has for intestate deaths will likely need an atty. it will not be a DIY project.
FF is spot on in advice to contact probate court as your first resource.
? For you?..... The $ that your sibling is spending from your deceased parents account just how are they able to do this? Once someone dies, SSA finds out in very short period of time so that income source stops (& SS payments can be clawed back too); plus the banks know also and their accounts are frozen. Ditto for any retirements or brokerage accounts. If this is $ from an insurance policy, you have to be the beneficiary to get paid. So if sibling is spending $ either they are commiting fraud OR are doing this from the banking being POD to them or they were co-owners on the account or they were the named beneficiary. Or things were in a trust, so the death makes no difference & the trustee just keeps on doing as before. Trust is still in play. Pls pause to think just how "ownership" & assets were done. If accounts & assets were POD, co-owned, in a trust, etc well that $ is their $ to spend as they want. Maybe Mom expected Sissy to use the $ to pay for her funeral / mortgage / taxes / share, whatever's but Sissy flat doesn't have to. Not nice, but totally on Sissy to do as she wants too.
Btw if you end up doing lineal heirship, all the details on your parents marriages, divorces, kids, etc all must be presented. Notices placed wherever the deceased has assets. At least 6 mos just for notifications. It can get quite convoluted with the possbiloty of more heirs surfacing.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
The sibling who spending the parent's money, may find herself needing to give that money back until after the Probate is finished, which can take months.
FF is spot on in advice to contact probate court as your first resource.
? For you?..... The $ that your sibling is spending from your deceased parents account just how are they able to do this? Once someone dies, SSA finds out in very short period of time so that income source stops (& SS payments can be clawed back too); plus the banks know also and their accounts are frozen. Ditto for any retirements or brokerage accounts. If this is $ from an insurance policy, you have to be the beneficiary to get paid. So if sibling is spending $ either they are commiting fraud OR are doing this from the banking being POD to them or they were co-owners on the account or they were the named beneficiary. Or things were in a trust, so the death makes no difference & the trustee just keeps on doing as before. Trust is still in play. Pls pause to think just how "ownership" & assets were done. If accounts & assets were POD, co-owned, in a trust, etc well that $ is their $ to spend as they want. Maybe Mom expected Sissy to use the $ to pay for her funeral / mortgage / taxes / share, whatever's but Sissy flat doesn't have to. Not nice, but totally on Sissy to do as she wants too.
Btw if you end up doing lineal heirship, all the details on your parents marriages, divorces, kids, etc all must be presented. Notices placed wherever the deceased has assets. At least 6 mos just for notifications. It can get quite convoluted with the possbiloty of more heirs surfacing.