In the state of Florida how do children of an elder father help him when he has a wife who is blocking us out of dad’s medical welfare. She is mentally unstable. Makes fun of his penis in front of everyone when he was naked in the hospital (was just tested thanks to my sister and we are waiting for results.). She tells him he can run when he wobbles, walks with a cane and walker. She tells him that he doesn’t need it.
My dad is in danger. I’m very shaky and worried for him. Do we have any rights? Any suggestions?
thank you
Are you speaking of the one that gets signed at the hospital or doctors office? Because those things are only good for 12 months and then they are considered invalid, even though they don't show an expiration date, it is common practice in the medical industry.
If you have a copy of one dad signed, go to the hospital and make sure they understand that you just want legitimate information from the source about your dad's condition and he wanted that for you as proven by the signed HIPAA.
You can contact an Elder Care Attorney and try to obtain Guardianship.
To do this you would have to have proof that your step mother is not caring for dad, any physical, emotional and or mental abuse would also probably allow for you to obtain Guardianship.
OH, and if stepmother is doing this IN the hospital in front of staff they are MANDATED to report any abuse. You can "remind" them of that fact.
I agree with Alva. Start with APS.
You are looking at a situation now for which you need legal help. You need an attorney. APS may be able to help you in getting one.
Wishing you the best.
While Dad is hospitalized you and your sister/s should contact a social worker. She/he cannot discuss with you your Dad's condition but she/he CAN ASSESS YOUR STEPMOM and she CAN call in APS.