I sometimes feel like the last 25 years of putting my parents first and the incredible stress of the last 6 years have eroded things to a horrible state. Marriage counseling has been attempted, but I have found that you have to have buy in from both sides. Just wondering if it is me or if this is a common occurrence in todays world?
Sig other always complaining we never do anything, which is true. I just don't have the energy because he's not much help.... much has to do with his generation where many of the men never learned to help with the housework or do caregiving. We both will be 70. Plus throw in breast cancer into the mix, which didn't help our relationship at all.