My father has Alzheimer's and two guns, and revolver and a .22. He becomes angry easily these days and his wife and I would like the guns out of the house, however, he has them locked in his office and he has the only key. He recently told me about the guns, smirking as he told me he has plenty of ammunition. His wife asked him to give them to my husband and he refuses. I realize we will have to take these weapons but I am very afraid of his reaction and the possibility that he will obtain other weapons.
He's had it for years so it's a long term memory that sticks with him. I found the gun and disabled it and stuck it back in his hiding place. It's been over a year and I haven't heard a peep.
We cannot allow dementia patients to have access to guns.
follow your conscience and do the right thing. Yes,
they get mad. Do it anyway.
I think this action is forwarded to feds as well.
Because of the possibility of fraud or other possibility of ID theft was a secondary reason for this action.
Law enforcement may have the authority to remove the firearms but disabling the fire arms might help keep the peace. The firing could be removed by a gunsmith.
Convincing him that having them checked by a gunsmith might be a way to go. Just explain to the gunsmith before hand what the need is.
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