Have any of you ever reported a sibling for their own SSI disability fraud? This would be related to learning that he/she has worked with some consistency despite a disability claim, concealed assets and traded securities in elder parents names or potentially failed to report income to Social Security, in violation of SSI limits. There could also be inappropriate use of the elders Social Security income.
I am grappling with the responsibility we all have to ensure the integrity and viability of the Social Security system. Versus the harm that could be felt by the elders themselves if the person they have enabled (perhaps knowingly in some cases, clearly unknowingly in others) is found to have broken the law.
There is also the risk that this is not "provable" - that a person who deals in cash only, puts assets in others names, etc. will not be found to have broken the law. I've seen a few of you have posted about an outcome like this. In which case the situation is inflamed without any productive result (for the individuals OR the health of the social security system).
Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom.
But, seriously?!?
Your “responsibility we all have to ensure the integrity and viability of the Social Security system.”
Kinda sounds like an excuse and/or justification to bust a sibling that you have an issue with - for right or for wrong.
Your turning your sibling in will cause all kinds of hard feelings - understatement - and likely cause a rift that will be irreversible. And - in the long run your “efforts” will have no impact on the Social Security Administration.
Is it really worth it? I say MYOB in this situation.
One case clearly will not have an impact on how this huge federal agency runs. But if we all simply turn the other cheek when we learn of potential abuse, what then?
Now the misuse of parents SS is another thing. He may need to prove how their money was spent. This is fraud.
Re. the parents' SS, I'm also concerned that if they need Medicaid down the line the lookback will bite them (on top of needing it sooner than they otherwise would).
Thank you.
Is it worth it for you? Because you are concerned about the SS system? Hmmmm
Recipients of SSDI get a meager amount of supplemental income. Speaking from experience here. That’s why they are allowed to augment and make up to $14K. The amount is nowhere near full SS.
I wouldn’t go there if I were you. You’ll cause years of strife between you & your sibling.
I would let go of how sibling's handling his own affairs, yet NOT when he/she "uses" your parent's names in any way that might backfire on them, esp if they are unable to approve what sibling is doing.
I would consult Adult Services and ask how you can protect them.
If they don't have the answers, find an elder lawyer for a consultation. Usually the first one is free.
All the best!
travels the globe on monthly vacations to his multiple time shares and spends the rest of his time on shopping sprees, facials, mani pedis, massages you name it.
I've felt frustrated finding out how common this is. Once you have a qualifying event, you can get on disability and stay on as long as you fly under the radar
which doesn't appear difficult to do.
I get the MYOB advice, and think it is probably well advised, but all these folks that are milking the system will have serious effects for our own SS when it's our turn
Pretty much guaranteed 25-30% cut in benefits by 2030 (been told this by people in the agency) We will probably wish there had been better oversight when it's our turn to receive benefits. I haven't had a real vacation in years (a day or two here or there) and it's hard to swallow that there are so many folks on extended vacations throughout their lives due to SS fraud. Just sayin.
I'm going to sit on the impulse for now. The situation is complex and I don't have clarity.
It might give your parents food for thought and allow them to initiate a conversation with your brother.
Don't. Just make sure that they understand that their actions have consequences. And mean it.