My dad's previous nursing facility sent me a $43000.00 bill after he left there. $8000.00 is money I owe on his behalf which I'm willing to pay ( It went to a collection agency)and I've informed the agency by letter that I will do that.
The rest is the charges from a 3 month waiting period for Medicaid, which ended in denial but he was approved the following month.
The admission agreement only holds me responsible for my dads income not to pay privately if he didn't have the money.
I'm seeking counsel but I just can't believe this could happen. They nearly killed my dad with dehydration at the time. I had to send him to the hospital because he was near death from being dehyrated and no one moved to do anything.
Has this ever happened to anyone else?
as long as you didn't sign paperwork, the bill is not yours to pay.
I understood I owed his income but never anything else. He was not private pay and the facility understood that upon admission
so the 8k, why is it really your debt?
and
did you in writing clearly state your responsibility for the 8k to the NH or the debt collection outfit?
id suggest that you ckearlybsieak with your atty as to if any of the 43k or 8k can actually be placed on you first and foremost. Personally I think on your own you can deal with the secondary and third level debt collection bottom feeders IF you respond to them within the 30 day required under Federal consumer laws. If your way way past that, or if it’s gone to getting a judgement against you, yeah, it’s on your atty to deal with it and get it settled,
I have a feeling this means his Social Security and any pension he may have had.
I would wonder if he was OKd for Medicaid why the balance owed was not paid retroactively. Medicaid may owe that amount?
You need to STOP right NOW. Don't make a move until you get the professional advice of a lawyer. You could do yourself thousands and thousands of dollar worth of harm if you do, and for no reason whatsoever.
Take all papers that show if you assumed this debt. Because it was your father getting the care. If his estate has no money it is very unlikely they will enforce any laws about children having to pay. Did you sign something saying you would be responsible for your Father's care.
Seek help. HURRY. You are badly in need a good advice.
I have an attorney
unbelievable what we go through
your right they probably have no details of the bill