Mum is getting worse shes just no capable of being alone when AND why? did any of you have to start looking at NHs. This is the hardest thing for anyone to have to do but my mums not safe and i just cant be here 24/7 anymore im so drained everyday is a new drama. Its like she progressing very fast!
I wish we had more AL here but we dont Ireland is very backward when it comes to giving a crap about elderly!
Good luck. If you can't find this, then find the best NH you can afford and try to visit when you can. It's the best you can do for her and you will be a better daughter without the day to day worries and caregiver responsibilities.
If i were to leave here she would be all alone but a carer to come in everyday and evening for an hour? then shes alone all night?
Its the hardest decision we will ever have to make and i just dread whats ahead of us (sorry did i say US?) i mean me siblings dont seem to worry?