My father is 78 and has numerous health issues including osteoporosis of hips. He has fallen 6 times this past year and receives PT 2/week. He has medicare a&b and supplemental 1 (MA). We will not put him in a nursing home. He wishes to remain in his condo but at some point he will need more care and I feel like we should start getting someone in there now so he is not alone late afternoon for too long. Can he even qualify for a policy to help with home health care or are we too late and he needs to manage out if pocket? Thank you.
Forget LTC insurance. That is the sort of thing he should have gotten 20 years ago.
Realistically at 78, dad has another decade or so. that is a long time to private pay for care. Does dad have mid 6 figures in assets to private pay for care?
Home health from an agency with some training can work for awhile and run $20-25 hr usually with 3 days@ 4 hr block minimum. Even if your just getting a sitter that is going to cost. It's not unusual to pay 25K-60k a yr for @ home care.
I understand that you all don't want a NH but at some point in time the level of care he needs will require 24/7 for his safety & medical needs. Does he & family have the ability to commit to doing that along with paid home health? If dad is having fall issues atop other health concerns, he is likely to break a hip, then have surgery followed by rehab in a NH; they can't progress in rehab to move back home so stay in NH. This is the classic scenario for the elderly to end up in a NH. NH run 5K-15K a month.Whatever path is taken whether stay at home or AL or Nh, it is all horrendously costly both financially & emotionally.
If dad has fallen 6 times this past year, the fall that breaks or shatters a hip is just a matter of time realistically.
If all your father has is "age related decline" he may never need a nursing home. But if he has or develops dementia, or if he breaks a hip, he may need round-the-clock care. Be realistic about what he can afford long term. Try to figure out what your options are if "we won't put him in a nursing home." Now you realize that LTC insurance isn't an option. Keep working on other possibilities.
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