I am about to start being primary hospice at home caregiver for my mom. I know the home health aides will show me how to dress and change her but I am the type who likes to learn by reading. Is there a reference or a manual or a link that anyone knows of to teach me the nuances of such intimate care? Need to avoid any humiliating or embarrassing situations if I can. I can joke with her about a lot of things at the same time, she hates being fussed over. Anyone want to share how they learned to do this? I'd be very grateful!
I was thinking about taking it so that it may help me later as the mil stages progress. However, I don't think their is really any books out their that will prepare us as a caregiver without the real hands on too. I think education ourselves n learning from others n hands-on should help for both the caregiver n the person you are caring for too.
When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping." To this day, especially in times of "disaster," I remember my mother's words and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers - so many caring people in this world." ~ Fred Rogers (Mr. Rogers Neighborhood) a mere 10 hour course
Hugs to you.