My mom has moderate dementia. She is starting to have bladder control issues with accidents during the night. I am using adult diapers and pads for her. I have cut back her fluids at night and giving her meds earlier in the evening. Now she is having trouble with bowel movements. She almost always has poop in her panties or poise pads. She says it just comes out. She doesn’t wipe well either. I don’t know what else to do. Any suggestions would be appreciated.