My dad is in a hospital (acute care) waiting to assignment to residential care. The staff consistently put him in a chair with restraints due to being understaffed. Our family is mortified. What techniques could we give them in managing his random aggression related to sundowning. he is a lamb all day long.
I often felt that what most administrations and most families really expect is magic. Or so it would seem. No one wants their family member drugged, nor do they want them physically restrained. Administration doesn't want the patient falling, nor assaulting other patients and staff, nor do they want their stats to indicated high numbers of patients in restraints or receiving drugs for the purpose of controlling behavior. But above all they don't want to pay for enough workers to keep a one on one supervision of the patients. And even when they pay for a "sitter" that can't stop the patient from slugging her, and the other staff that come to her aid. (Been there, suffered that. Many times)
As for "animal instincts" kicking in, you've got the cart before the horse. When the patient is hitting, kicking, shoving, biting, and peeing on other people, the animal instincts have already set in. THAT is why the restraints are being applied. The restraints are the result, not the cause of the behavior.
Unfortunately, there really isn't a good answer. One of the first things we were instructed to do is contact the family and ask them to come in a sit with the patient. Having also been the "family" of an Alzheimer's patient, I know how unworkable, and often ineffective that is too. Often times the answer was "we can't". And even when they did come, it was minimal help, beyond their being able to call us into the room when the patient was doing something dangerous.
Sorry, I don't have any answers for you. I don't think there are any really good answers for this horrible disease. But I do know that I couldn't let it slide, that the only response is to criticize and blame the nurses who are working in this impossible situation.
Ask how they handle aggressive behavior.
Visit often BEFORE you place your loved one.
Keep abreast of the drugs and medications used in the home or facility.
Ask about staff and background checks on employees.
Do your own research.
Too many families trust an imperfect system.Often they are in a hurry to place a family member and get on with their own lives.
They judge the home or facility on a one hour tour or brochure.
They often make the assumption that money buys excellent care.
Time for a wake up call.
Facilities are short staffed.
Meds are used to regulate everything from bowel movement to sleep.
Restraints will be used to protect both client and caregivers.
If don't like these scenarios then you'd best keep your loved one at home.
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