I am a sister. My brother (62), is single and disabled. My brother is living with our other sister. Only income is SS disability. Seeing Dr.'s. Diagnosed with TBI. Unable to make decisions for himself. An attorney has suggested guardianship but after reading the definition, that doesn't seem the right direction. I am 72, my sister 69. Just want to make sure he is cared for and possibly rehabilitated while we are able.
I'm confused, because doesn't his doctor already know that he has TBI? If his behavior is concerning or he is having more medical problems, I would let his doctor know immediately.
Is he still able to appoint a Healthcare Power of Attorney and Durable POA? With his condition, he really needs to do that, though, from what you say, it may be too late. If no one is appointed and he is not able to make his own decisions, the doctor, neighbor or some one in the community could report it and the court may appoint a Guardian. Or you may Petition the court and ask that they appoint someone else if you and your sister do not feel as if you can do it. Do you think that he is competent to take care of his household and make sound financial and medical decisions?
I wouldn't wait until there is a crisis to make the arrangements. Is he able to understand what you are trying to do for him and why you are concerned or is it beyond that point?