This is $600.00, which in our financial circle is a very large rate increase and not a "modest" rate increase. Besides moving our mother out of the facility what options do I have? Does this seem like a large amount to others as her monthly rate by this much or am I over reacting?
Do you have a contract, can they raise prices now (is this when the period is up)?
I would be looking for a different facility unless moms needs have drastically increased recently and this is a reflection of the additional care required.
I do honestly think letters like this would be a great deal LESS annoying if they didn't attempt the mealy-mouthed eyewash. If the letter just said "$600 extra, like it or lump it," at least you'd know where you stood, and at least you wouldn't have the insult of being called a whinge-bag added to the injury of being given no option.
Mind you. It might, actually, be modest compared to increases being imposed by other facilities.
Can it be done?
No, I don't think you are over reacting! I don't consider that "modest" in the least. When I placed my mom in an IL/AL facility in early 2015, it was privately owned by a husband and wife. Once they retired and sold it to a small, corporate company the yearly increase was 3% (for us around a $100 more per month).
What I'm wondering is whether this has to do with the pandemic to try and make up for losses and paying for PPE and other COVID-19 related expenses. Not only that, if they lost residents(i.e. death) from the virus and were on lockdown like my mom's, no one was moving in or out. Just a thought. If it were me, I would want a breakdown of just what this increase is for. In our case, we would get letters at least one month prior to the new rate increase taking affect and a reason justifying the increase. We ended up moving my mom in May, so I have not experienced this yet at her new facility. I hope you are able to get to the bottom of this so you can make a decision in what to do with your mom.
And one month to figure out where this 'modest increase' is coming from? Your loved one pays about $4300 now for care. That's actual probably still a 'pretty good deal?' I don't have anyone in long term care....but I expect that is about what we'd be paying.
Is there any explanation as to why? Is this permanent or temporary? Due tyo COVID and the related expenses of having to job out a lot of extra care--or is your LO becoming more 'work'?
DH is working right next to me right now and I said "You were right, we should have invested in NH's back in the 80's."
I'd check this out more thoroughly--a one month notice is not very much time, esp if you are scraping to get by now.
JoAnn's answer seems the best one to follow through on.
not much for good private facility and I wouldn’t complain.
Good luck right now, I would think, in finding another facility willing to take in new residents. It happens but is not easy.
I don't think you're 'over reacting', I just don't know that you have any recourse at all.