My mom is half paralyzed on right side , I'm 26 year old. I give up my work to take care of my mother. I'm the youngest my brother and my sister had already married. They can't help me bcoZ of there children. Now I don't know what I'm going to do?.I don't have money to support our daily needs.
Just because your siblings launched their lives ahead of you does not mean you cannot or should not have an opportunity. Giving up your life for mom will turn your love into resentment, that would be devastating for both of you.
Have an extra special Mother's day with her.
You might start by calling your county Department of Human Services, explain that your mother has some handicaps, and ask for a needs assessment for her. They can help you determine options for her care.
You don't state the reason for the partial paralysis. If it's stroke related, check with local hospitals to see if they have stroke support groups. A hospital in this area does; they have regular meetings, so people have a chance to get out and socialize with others in similar situations. It might also provide you with ideas on moving forward with professional care.
In the meantime, as you sort out the caregiving responsibilities, make sure that your mother's financial and legal affairs are in order.
This must be very difficult for you and your siblings but together you can see that your Mother is safe and well cared for, while you getting on with the lives Mom wants you to have. Visit often and let her know how much you love her. The grandchildren can still be an active part of her life as well. Being a successful, independent adult is the best gift any child can give their parent. Best of luck!