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I’m an adult. The people I live with are the family members. They only buy things for themselves. Anything that they buy with their money they take that item away from me and they give improper stuff to me on purpose, like a very huge coat that drags around. I feel really uncomfortable without an undergarment cause I read it helps support the body to prevent certain things. These people constantly yelling shut up shut up at me about how I’m not allowed to wear those tight clothes. They don't care about my well being they stare down at me trying to make people think I’m the enemy.

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It seems that you are quite computer literate. That's excellent.
Do google the Adult Protective Services in your area and tell them what you have told us. Ask them to pay you a visit in your home. Good luck.
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Livingnotgood4 Feb 2021
I can't fully depend on them it'll only make these people very angry all cause APS gets involved and they'll make all sorts of fail info about me like I have autism or some kind of mental issue etc. But I believe if I contacted APS and they came here and left the area these people will becomes mad and will prevent me from having internet access again or be more strict to watch me online
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Good answer! Someone needs to look in on you.
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You can move out to your own place.

They buy things for themselves with their money and take it away from you. Then buy your own items with your own money.

Tight clothes has a lot of negative side effects such as digestive and circulatory. In the elderly, it can also increase the risk of UTIs and cause bladder problems.

You have not stated what is wrong with you and why you are not living alone.

Just because a caregiver tells you no does not mean that they are mean and evil or that you are abused. It could mean that they are burned out and you should accept or pay for outside assistance or placement.
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Livingnotgood4 Feb 2021
I don't own a vehicle nor money except tuition which I'm not allowed to use they are controlling everything.

I would need undergarments that's not only for the bottom but also the top that I can feel comfortable fitting and if I happens to change into another clothes I won't be securely hidden.

These people are very strict so I have to do what they say or I'll be disrespecting them
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Something tells me this could well be a scam. It’s a brand new poster, no Profile. The grammar is quite interesting – oddly accurate. The complaints are unlikely. Does OP want to find out how we’d respond to a poster, rather than to family members?
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LoopyLoo Feb 2021
Yeah I have no clue what “I read it helps support the body to prevent certain things” is supposed to mean.
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Ok you’re real. Can you answer a few questions? How old are you? Who do you live with? Are you incontinent? Bedridden? Being computer literate & able to navigate your way here doesn’t mean you can actually take care of yourself. What is the reason you are in this situation?
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I do not usually wear a bra or underwear so I can tell you that nothing happens. You do not start sagging or anything.

But what you are describing could be considered sexual assault so call this number:
800.656.HOPE (4673).

Good luck
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How old are you? What country to you live in? Are you an immigrant?
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You need to call APS and have them remove you from the premises, now. Tell them you fear for your life if they investigate and leave you there. They will find you a place to stay, food, etc.
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You are obviously not a senior if you are receiving tuition to live on.

You make some pretty gruesome accusations and then you shoot down every resource given to help you.

Sorry, I think that you need help and this is not the right place for your games.

Oh, you have very good grammar in your original question that went out the window in your responses because someone questioned your true abilities based on your grammar. So obvious!
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Forget the not being treated right. Just get out of there.

You said you get tuition, but they don't allow you to use the money. Whoever sends those checks will want to know where that money is going if you're not in school. That's a call you can make once you get away from there.

When you next go out in the day time, walk to the nearest police or fire station or neighbor farthest away .. someone who does not know you, and ask them to call the police to come to get you ~ don't give your name or address. At the police station, ask to speak in confidence, and explain you've been held as a prisoner in a home and you need help, a place to stay and to never return there ~ and that if you are returned to that place, those people will take revenge on you. Do not let anyone take you back, and do not ever go back. Good luck.
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Why are you dependent on these family members, and do you mean they are your family?
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