My mom had a fall, had to go to the hospital. She's almost 77, has dementia (not full-blown but stuck in the past a lot, and gets confused), has a hard time walking any distance, diabetes, a bit hard of hearing, etc. But she took a tumble and was on the floor a couple days before a neighbor saw her lights on and wondered about it. So she's in the hospital and doing pretty well, but they want her to go to a nursing facility for a week or two, to get 24-hour care and physical therapy. The social worker is making some calls for us after we talked to her, and she says the stay is covered up to 21 days by Medicare. Is that true? Is that only the stay? Assisted living and other senior homes are pretty pricey, so I'm skeptical. I'll be making calls and a couple visits in the next couple days but want to know what to expect.
1. Was she actually admitted to the hospital she is currently in -- as opposed to just being observed -- and has she been admitted for three nights (as opposed for example to observed for a night and admitted for only two nights)? If she does not meet both of these critieria, Medicare will not cover any of the SNF charges
2. Make sure you understand the care plan for the SNF. The 100 days are not automatic; she has to be making progress toward recovery (or continuing to need the skilled nursing or... whatever the plan says)
Medicare does not cover assisted living and "senior homes."
Now what happened for your mom is the overwhelming scenario in how the elderly enter a NH: mom/dad living @ home, falls; goes to hospital; gets discharged for rehab; doesn't progress in their rehab, so Medicare stops paying; they can't go home as they can't function as they did before so stay in NH; neither family or the elder has the $ so they end up applying for Medicaid to pay for NH.
NH is either private pay; long term care insurance or Medicaid. A NH does NOT have to have Medicaid beds either - so you want to make sure that wherever moms is placed does take Medicaid and takes residents as "Medicaid Pending". Most of the better NH where I live (New Orleans) do NOT ever take Medicaid OR they take it for just a few beds and the waiting list for those is always made up from private pay residents who have been there paying for 1 - 2 years prior. But where my mom is in Central Texas, there are lots of nice NH that take Medicaid. If you think that mom will need to apply for Medicaid, please make that clear to the social worker @ the hospital. NH run between 5K - 15K a month. Really depends on your state. Now the NH all really really like taking them in for "rehab" as Medicare payment is pretty high so that part will be easy. It is how the NH deals with Medicaid once she goes off "rehab" that will be sticky.
Basically for Medicaid, they have to be impoverished with about 2K in monthly income and 2K in liquid assets. They can keep their home & a car. It's going to be a lot of hoops to jump though, but really some of this panic on Medicaid can wait.
Get a short list from the social worker of the rehab's who have current openings and go see them asap. Tour each and find out if they do Medicaid Pending and get their list of what they want to see to accept mom as a Pending. Don't hyperventilate when you get the list, it will work out. Pain in the butt but do-able.
Personally I'd more concentrate on working, encouraging mom to do whatever in her rehab to be "progressing" so that she is getting to be her old self and also that this is all about Medicare paying for a close to their 100 days maximum. Having Medicare paying for mom gives you time to deal with the whole Medicaid qualification and application.
Also keep in mind that MedicAID is run by the states, so each state has it's own unique rules but within an overall federal guideline. We dealt with Medicaid for my MIL in LA and it was some kinda simple compared to what my BIL had to deal with for her when she stayed in TX. Your state should have details on Medicaid on their HHS (Health & human Services) website or Department of Aging site. It's a lot of take it and try not to let it overwhelm you. Good luck.
But most AL are freestanding, for-profit & private pay or LTC insurance.