My mom is in rehab for PT to get her walking again. The social worker came in and gave her 3 words and said remember these, I'll ask for them later. Then he asked what day it is, the month and the year. She got them all correct, but could not remember the words. He gave her strong hints, but she just could not get one.
This test can be very important when you think about new actions that a person may need to take. If your Mum has a new prescription will she remember to take it? Even if she can remember to take the Rx she has been on for years, she may not remember the new one. Will she remember to do her exercises once she is back home? Again, short term memory recall in at play here.
If Mum does not remember having a conversation or phone call, this can be indicative of a problem. Often people post here about family members complaining that no one visits, when the family knows there are regular visitors. Yup, could be short term memory issues.
I went through an incredibly stressful time 5 years ago. At that time my short term recall was terrible. I had to use notes, which I did remember to check, in order to function .
draw a clock is my bugaboo. :(
I can see short term decline, but she also has hearing difficulties, but did have her hearing aids in. He did make her repeat the words.
I am curious as to if/what she understands at times. but some of the things she does, she has done all her life.
As an inpatient I was often asked where I was, the name of the hospital,city etc.
Likewise with the day or date question. If one is retired, it's likely that the exact date or day is less important than when one was employed or had family members working or in school. A week having a holiday can make it even more confusing. I sometimes have to stop and think to come up with the right answer, or at least "well, I know Friday was the 22nd, so today, which is Sunday, must be the 24th".
I liked what Veronica asked "I am curious, were you with her and did you remember the words? If yes, how easy or difficult was it to remember?"
I was with Mom when she was tested by a neurologist. There were tests he gave Mom I had problems with. One was looking at a picture and then drawing it from memory. Mom did great, don't think I could have.
This is not a great way to assess a persons memory and if this is all they have done I would not put much stock in the results.
And a MME is not given just once it is repeated months later to determine how much of a decline there has been. So if this was the first and only time she was given this "test" I would put even less value to it in the matter of results.
Funny thing is when they gave my Husband 3 words to remember they were something like Denim, Cotton, Apple. He did not recall all of them and I said later if they has said Screwdriver, Hammer, Race Car he would have been able to recall the words.
I feel for you.. and i will say that you write very well...your story is just heartbreaking. 😢 With this kind of short-term memory loss we learn to compensate in other areas, which become our strengths. I had a brain tumor in my young forties which affected my sh-term memory, but i do make lists and notes to remember what is important. I also challenged myself to earn a Master’s degree, complete at age 59! You can do amazing things when you put your mind to it. 🤓
My mom often mentioned that my late dad's neurologist used the same three words every single time he was tested. Nowadays, when Mom's doctor says, "I'm going to say three words and I want you to remem...", she cuts him off and blurts, "apple, penny, table!"
You didn't say why your mom is in rehab. Did she have surgery that required general anesthesia? Did she have pneumonia or a UTI? All of these can cause temporary, and sometimes permanent, issues with cognition. Being in a rehab facility also frequently unmasks cognitive impairment because the person is no longer in their own environment. If this is the case, there's often a referral to speech therapy for cognitive interventions.
The best thing to do in this situation is speak directly with the social worker and/or team members if you have concerns. Cognitive assessment should be an ongoing process when someone is in rehab. It's not a one-time screen and everything is determined from that. Your mom's memory lapse may have been situational but if she is showing difficulty in other areas of cognitive function, then this is an opportunity to identify them so that good supports can be put in place.
I had wondered if she had dementia, but she seemed to be ok. Now however, she is seems to be a bit more difficult. Even with hearing aids, she is very hard of hearing. I am seeing her attempt to read lips also. She was never very bright to begin with, never had a time line ever, is illiterate. she talks about stuff that happens years past as if they happened yesterday.
I live 45 min away, one brother lives 90min away and is having surgery, so he won't be able to come down for at least 6 weeks. she lives in an inlaw apt with our youngest brother, who works some days and some nights and is hardly home. Frankly, I don't want to have to deal with a person that cannot toilet herself and is just plain mean! she is 150 lbs, I can't lift her either.
this nursing home won't talk to me about mom unless she is present. I am thinking that maybe I should just ask my questions anyway. I think I was trying to spare her feelings.
I visited her last night and got an earful! I went to the nursing station and it seems there were just 2 nurses on the floor - not a huge floor by any means. one gave me a difficult time, I am not on her healthcare proxy, but I am on the hippa. says she couldn't talk to me because of not being on the health care proxy - the nursing supervisor said there can only be 2 people on it and I was ok with both brothers. I will be taking one off and adding me.
Easy to do if you're retired.
Aso yourself, humm have I forgotten something someone told me before?
Im sure the answer is yes.
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DH did better than me and he was 96 to my 66.
Don't worry about it. It's just one of several ways that they test the brain.
Even when I was school, including university lectures, I found I got relatively little information out of hearing, and often found my classroom notes almost useless, often reverting to textbooks to absorb the subject. I take in information much better by visual rather than auditory means.
Really it is more important for those who are most familiar with someone's behaviors, abilities, routines, etc to keep tabs on them and watch for the subtle signals, and they ARE subtle (some can be caused by other medical issues, many of which can be treated.)
Early dementia can be dealt with, even allowing the person to live alone for a while longer (we did this, using various tricks and tools to keep tabs on her and try to keep her safe such as cameras, locked alarmed Rx dispenser, bringing in aides for quick one hour visit/check, enlisting eyes/ears of neighbor, etc.) Doctor's do not see patients on a regular basis or for very long during appointments. The MME test can be relatively useless for the early stages as "show-timers" can get through the test, yet be incapable of doing simple tasks at home! Listen, Observe and Report.
After reading your response, there's obviously way more going on here than whether or not your mom can re-state three basic words on delayed recall. I asked in my original post whether or not OT and speech are part of the rehab team because if not, they should be. It sounds like you already know that your mom is unsafe at home. I'm not completely clear on what assist she needs with her toileting, but it sounds like she needs help. Her rehab team is there not only to help her regain function, but to make recommendations to her and your siblings for her safest possible and most manageable discharge. It sounds like these decisions are up to your brothers until you replace one of them on her healthcare proxy.
If you're truly concerned about dementia and cognitive function, this is the time to have her fully assessed if she hasn't been already. A good clinician will take her hearing impairment into account. And the results may better guide everyone in decision-making.
Mom may need help to walk to the bathroom or pull her pants down. I am not sure. At the point, I had talked about it at the 1st meeting, it was not clear if she could get up and walk using a walker on her own.
As she falls asleep every time she sits down, I think she is a cooking hazard. However, she will not allow anyone else in the house except this one woman. She did has a lot of money stolen from her from her 2nd caretaker. It was a she said, she said situation and so we could not press charges.
because I am retired, I think both brothers think I have all this free time to babysit her. she is 45 min away from me. I take her to all her medical appointments, and out to her COA on Fridays for the knitting group.
I simply do not want to live there. Neither does my hubby want me to live there. Driving back and forth is wearing me out. I am 64. Not a young kid anymore