She will turn ninety in less than thirty days. Lives (unfortunately) in one of NYC five boroughs. Apparently falls into a "crack" of being "middle income" even on the fixed income. Geez. Worked all her life as Educator. We were already scammed once. I am son and oldest soon to move out of staying with her temporarily to get married. Advised to call NYS Health Insurance Assistance Program to get options - Mum's short-term memory is about "shot" however so she cannot do it alone and I work daily. Frustrating situation...
just one idea, maybe it works, maybe not, or some variation. Maybe another woman, late 50's, who can't afford her own home...ask at your mom's church or temple. There HAS to be someone who needs a clean extra room, and could keep an eye on your mom, maybe share a movie rental, pizza, and drive her to a couple doctor appointments. Worth investigating!