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I *think* it's a divorce that happens to couples in later life, perhaps, whose paths have diverged over the years and who decide they've no more time to waste and it's never too late to move on, even though their children might have been about to club together to buy them a gold-plated loving cup for their 50th wedding anniversary.
Google says: it's divorce between older folks (think grey hair . . . lol) often after many years of marriage.
I know a couple who almost did this - they had been married over 50 years. Funny (sort of) thing was, the first reaction was "Why now? You've been married all these years!" and I heard that the DH's response was along the lines of "We've been married all these years, I have so few left, it's now or never" (seems he was the unhappy one pushing the divorce.)
In the end they stayed together, more for financial reasons and saving face, than anything else :(
Many years ago I read that a study found the divorce rate spikes round retirement age, when people have to spend the entire day with each other. I work with my husband so during retirement I'm looking forward to spending less time with him -- just kidding ;-)
Retirement is no joke, there are many adjustments that are nessasary to learn to get along. I can definitely see where many get divorced at this stage of life.
Now try retiring at the Same time, and while caring for your parents at the same time, even more precarious! There should be classes for retirees to learn how to do it carefully, ie: financials and investments, exercise and health care management, outside interests, household management! It's definitely an adjustment!
We've been at it for several years now and it's still stressful! My husband is a talker and I've learned to tune him out To A Point! There are times that I have to tell him to go and find something to do, you are driving me crazy!
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I know a couple who almost did this - they had been married over 50 years. Funny (sort of) thing was, the first reaction was "Why now? You've been married all these years!" and I heard that the DH's response was along the lines of "We've been married all these years, I have so few left, it's now or never" (seems he was the unhappy one pushing the divorce.)
In the end they stayed together, more for financial reasons and saving face, than anything else :(
Now try retiring at the Same time, and while caring for your parents at the same time, even more precarious! There should be classes for retirees to learn how to do it carefully, ie: financials and investments, exercise and health care management, outside interests, household management! It's definitely an adjustment!
We've been at it for several years now and it's still stressful! My husband is a talker and I've learned to tune him out To A Point! There are times that I have to tell him to go and find something to do, you are driving me crazy!