Mom w dementia is at home w 24/7 aide. So light housekeeping, grocery shopping etc all handled. What are some ideas for the routine stuff like changing storms and screens and cleaning gutters, as well as the unexpected things like a light switch broke or rugs need a thorough steam cleaning, that isn’t within the aides duties? Also for general check ins - if you use a geriatric care manager, how much of this is done by them, or do they hire others for stuff?
I think that Angie's list is also a good source.
I would be careful sharing any information about the residents of the home. I am overly cautious about strangers knowing that the home has vulnerable seniors, just never know.
This has worked for my mother's home because we aren't waiting on family member to have the time to come or trying to locate someone when it happens.
As for yard work or minor things (clean gutters, change light bulbs) start with neighbors who know her first. They may have a good lawn guy or handy man already. You do have to be very careful about who is coming and going in the house. Things can come up missing.
Usually tradesmen know of other tradesmen. If there is one who you think highly of, ask him/her if he/she has any recommendations. That is usually your best bet. My parents did that and found excellent people to help out.
I never use Yelp, or similar, as fake negative reports can be found. The company I work for, we had found people making negative remarks who were never our clients, nor had we ever had a conversation with a person by that name.
Dad loves his illusion of independance, so Barry does all the yard work, plants, waters and weeds a huge veggie garden. Barry meets other professionals as needed, I had to arrange for the septic tanks to be pumped, Barry met the truck.
During storm season he checks the house inside and out, removes debris etc. If there is damage or work needed he gives me a call, if it is outside regular work.
This works very well for us.
Heavy cleaning falls to me. No rugs to worry about, but stripping and waxing floors, interior painting, washing walls, cleaning ovens. It could be hired out too, but I generally spend 2 weeks there with a plan to scrub and polish. I have a sense of pride in the effect of a good cleaning.
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