We're currently moving mom into a senior apartment but it's just that, an apartment with some activities, but no dining or health aids. I'm trying to convince my siblings that we need to have mom tested to see if she is ok on her own or does she need a place where there is help if needed. I don't want her to have to move twice. I'm concerned my siblings are making decisions without knowing the facts.
If she still craves social activity, she might better like a place with bus trips and activities. Even the shared dining is good mental stimulation and conversation.
A good senior apartment has pull cords or pendants for residents to summon help, with onsite response 24/7. Have you been to office visits with her and reviewed things with her MD?