My Mother in Law has been in a nursing home for a year, she’s got dementia, she had trouble walking when she went in, but is now pretty much just in a wheel chair now. She’d had falls in the beginning when she was there. The NH’s solution was to move her to sit in front of the nurse’s station during the day and night. I understand the day part, even if she naps crunched over in a chair, but she doesn’t sleep in a bed at night either. I understand it’s because of the fall risk if she wakes at night. But isn’t there some better way to address the fall concern and still let her sleep in a bed?
Families should NOT have to pay for a private duty caregiver for their loved one in a nursing home. If a family is going to do that they might as well keep them at home. The nursing home has options when a resident is a fall risk, making a resident sit at the nurses station 24/7 is NOT one of them!
We took him home, bought a very low electric bed, and pay for 24 hour care. Someone sits at the bedside or watches him with a baby monitor if they need to leave the room; they sleep on a mattress on the floor next to bed. He rarely tries to get up since he's been home, but if he does the caregiver offers to help him sit on the edge of the bed or transfer to the wheelchair.
Fortunately, after a year he qualified for Medicaid and their In Home Supportive Services program, so they now pay for some of his caregiver hours. After another year, he also is about to receive more paid hours through the Home and Community Based Alternatives waiver program ("Waiver Personal Care Services"). If your MIL would qualify for these services, you might consider 24 hour care at home.
I don’t have experience with nursing homes however that doesn’t sound ethical to me at all.
My 83 yr old mom is a fall risk too she has unsteady gait among other health issues one being vascular dementia. She lives at home with me. I sleep in the same Queen size bed, I’m on one side and a small hand rail is on the other side so she can’t fall out of the bed and she also lifts herself up with it, she used to pull my arm/shoulder too much when I used to assist her in & out of bed. I take her to the bathroom throughout the night and once in awhile I’ll have her use the commode by her bed. It’s a very tough life for the both of us.
However if I left her in a chair all day and let her sleep in a chair all night...I think that would be considered elder abuse, so I’m not sure how that nursing home is actually getting away with that. She needs 24/7 care, but unfortunately they don’t have staff for each resident throughout the night. The lowered bed sounds like a good idea what others suggested.
Please check your mother’s body for any pressure sores/ulcers as well. I would definitely speak with the highest individual possible at that nursing home with your concern that she’s in a chair for 24 hours and then contact an elder attorney too if it doesn’t get resolved immediately.
good luck!
...and she was afraid of 'that person who comes into my bedroom.'
A bed in its lowest position plus padding on the floor next to the bed is the best alternative. The staff do make regular "rounds" of all of the rooms, so someone will find her should she roll onto the floor pads.
Some nursing homes have recliners that residents may use for daytime napping. However, this depends on state regulations, because a recliner can be deemed a "restraint" because a patient is unable to get out of it without staff assistance.
There is no easy answer. When a person's health deteriorates to a certain point, there is no way to totally prevent falls.
in respite when I went to pick her up I would find her bed on the floor I didn’t understand at the time why they did this but know I understand if it was on the floor then she couldn’t get up to fall. Wish my bed at home was as low.
did you try researching an air mattress, some of them are very low and comfortable too, I use it for my mother’s grandchildren (adults) when they come over and visit.
good luck.
Sitting in a wheelchair should not be an all day thing. I would think it would cut off circulation. Hospital beds can now be put down lower to the floor. Pads can be put on each side. They gave Mom a concaved mattress, making it hard to get out. I was told one side can can be put up leaving the other down.
As her representative u can ask that she be put to bed.
The recliner sounds great. Your mom’s home made an honest effort to make her comfortable but keep her safe. I applaud them.
Thanks for sharing this info, JoAnn.
FREEDOM FROM RESTRAINTS AND ABUSE
Residents shall have the right to be free from verbal, sexual, physical or mental abuse; corporal punishment, involuntary seclusion; and any physical and chemical restraints imposed for the purpose of discipline or convenience and not required to treat the resident’s medical symptoms.
12 Nursing Home Care Louisiana Department of Health and Hospitals
I repeat: "...required to treat the resident’s medical symptoms."
These regulations on residents' rights were never intended to prevent the *appropriate* use of what are in fact aides rather than restraints. They just require that the equipment is justified, and can be shown to be justified, as being beneficial to the resident. It's the process of justification, and the additional duty of care demanded by safe use, that are the NHs' headache.
My point is this: There is no way to prevent falls with the elderly. You can't ask the NH to use bed rails, they are federally prohibited. You may be able to install a bed cane which is a device that's used to help the resident pull herself up from bed. My mother has one on her bed. Will it prevent her from falling out of bed? Nope. Only God will prevent that from happening.
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Mats on the floor around the bed which has been lowered is another idea that we use the in the Memory Care community where I work. If the resident falls out of bed, at least they fall onto a soft surface which is not high up.
We are trying too hard to extend the lives of the elderly by employing too many 'safety' measures. Let them alone to live what's left of their lives on THEIR terms. Everything I've tried to help my mother has failed. Every technique the MC has employed has failed as well (bed and chair alarms; by the time the alarm goes off, she's ALREADY on the floor). I am not a 'bad daughter' by not having figured out The Answer for preventing my mother from falling. The ALF is not a Bad ALF for not being able to prevent my mother from falling. Her age is what's making her fall. Her balance issues; her dementia; her poor judgement; her weak muscles; her forgetfulness (that she's not capable of walking) is at the root of the problem and nothing short of God Himself is going to 'fix' this problem with these elders.
Let your poor MIL sleep in her bed at night. Ask the NH to put the mats down on the floor and to lower the bed to the lowest position. Some people even put the box spring on the FLOOR and the mattress on top of it, to keep the bed at THE lowest possible position.
Then hope & pray for the best. Really, what else CAN we do? It's kind of like trying to prevent the rain from falling. It's going to fall, one way or another, no matter HOW much we hope it doesn't.
Unfortunately, falls are common in the elderly. It’s heartbreaking. So sorry that your mom has fallen so many times. It’s so hard, constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop.
It terrified me every time my mother fell. The firemen knew us. I couldn’t get mom up by myself. She couldn’t lift herself.
It makes me cry to this day thinking about how awful it is for them to fall. I would tell mom how scared I was afterwards and it always broke my heart when she would say to me that she was scared too. It was terrifying to her.
Parkinson’s disease is horrible because their body won’t cooperate with their brain. I pray to God that I don’t get it!
Sadly, mom’s brother had Parkinson’s disease too. He died at 96 and his quality of life towards the end was just awful. I would rather be dead than to live like that.
There are other mobility aides such as bed sticks, which are not considered restraints and do give the person something to hold on to: did the NH at least consult an occupational therapist?
And, just suppose for some reason it absolutely was necessary to use bed rails and there was a clinical and/or safety justification for it: then there will also be a mechanism by which a home or facility needing to use them can apply for exemption.
Some reasons they don't want to go there are:
it's just a lot easier not to;
they don't have to provide staff training in the process;
no one can get it wrong and cause an accident;
if they did the application for one resident and installed a bed rail, sure as you're born the next day there'd be five other families demanding the same for their loved ones - and, as seen in the excerpt, a family member hopping up and down in your office is not a justification for the use of bed rails.
So you get this form of learned helplessness from them instead, and your poor relative is left to struggle. It drives me nuts.
Everyone has lawyers these days that advise them. They can’t disregard the stipulations and open the door to law suits.
The nursing home says their hands are tied. The residents feel helpless. It’s sad all around.
This was a rehab situation for my mom but it’s the same for permanent residency. No restraints ever. In rehab they are working with patients to recover so they have to be extra cautious. Also, mom is in her 90’s.
The people who sit there have no call button to let someone know they need a bathroom visit, a sweater, a nap, or anything else. They tell me mom verbalizes her needs, but that just means that they hear her sometimes. Many times she drifts into her own world and doesn't speak or even open her eyes. Did I mention she can only hear if they put her hearing aids in? Also, sometimes the staff sit behind the desk at the station -- out of sight of the residents. How are they supposed to ask for help if they can't see anyone?
Also, I've seen the nurse station empty and these were residents trying to get into the bathroom on their own! If there's no one at the station, anything can happen. I might ask them to either get her a cushioned reclining (multi-position) chair or switch her often between chair and bed.
As I was just this morning looking up care regulation in Florida for different reasons, I thought I'd see what the same state agency has to say about restraints, specifically bed rails. Here is a clip from a current discussion paper...
"6. Restraints. Restraints are prohibited. Are restraints being used? Examples of restraints: Buckle or Velcro seat belt in the wheelchair that resident cannot release, Geriatric Chairs with lap trays and, the use of sheets tied to a chair to support resident. Family request is not justification for the use of restraints. Only half- bed rails are allowed with a physician’s order every 6 months.
An ALF resident who is also on hospice care can have full bed rails if the health care provider and interdisciplinary plan identifies that the resident needs them."
What this boils down to is this. It is NOT true for an NH to whine 'oh we can't use bed rails they're illegal we're not allowed it's the law...'
What they actually mean is: 'the use of bed rails (and other safety equipment) is hedged around with protocols and guidelines and we can't be arsed to train people to do the paperwork.'
So. When you have a situation that is *manifestly* detrimental to a person's quality of life and physical wellbeing being blamed on care regulations, it is time to take it further. It will be a slow and painstaking process, though. Are you feeling patient???
The staff adamantly told me no because bed rails are considered to be restraints. It’s terribly sad for Parkinson’s patients and others with mobility issues that rely on having an object to grip onto so they can move.
Mom felt like her independence was robbed. No bed rails caused her to have to totally rely on staff. It’s sad but the staff had to abide by the regulations. Before these laws were in place they used to provide bed rails.
I would have felt safer having my mother as near to the nurse’s station as possible, whether in a chair or something else, IF she was getting a reasonable amount of sleep while she was there.
That said, it can be very tough to accept that “unusual” solutions can sometimes be more comfortable for our LOs in the grand scheme of things.
She’s truly Blessed that your devoted to finding a solution.