Have a weekend or week off from caring for my Mom. My Mom requires a lock down facility due to wandering and can be sneaky at times. For the most part she goes to the bathroom and wears disposable underwear which we require her to change twice a day. Once in morning and once before bed. She still eats fine and watches TV. But she will wander repeatedly. We are able to pay for the temporary care services.
I wish you & yours a happy respite. :)