My husband sleeps all day. We have Hospice care for him. I'm very depressed at the moment. I cannot give anyone hints how to survive this thing. We cannot afford assisted living. I have investigated that idea. Assisted Living is for the wealthy, not ordinary people such as us.
I see that you live in California, and that State offers a lot of excellent programs for the Elderly and for Caregivers. Contact your local council on aging.... go to the website link below.... click on your State.... now click on the city/county. The agency should be able to direct you. https://www.agingcare.com/local/Area-Agency-on-Aging