He has Hydrocephalus and had a shunt put in 3 yearsago, they say it can change their personality, and it has , he now watches porn every day on his computer masturbating, leaving the door open so that I will see. He says I should have sex with him but that will never happen, I feel very sad as he is not the man I married many years ago, but he now has started to shave his pubic hair with his electric razor. I am not sure what is the best thing I should do, any suggestions would be helpful, it has also affected his walking , speech and short term memory at times. I have not told the health care workers about this at the moment, should I?
Wishing you the best of luck!
If you do have HC workers coming in and he is doing sexual things with the doors open and people can hear the porn he is watching, then yes, they should be told he may do this and you need to make sure the doors are shut. If you think he may approach or say something inappropriate to any in-home workers this absolutely needs to be discussed prior to them coming into your home.
FYI there have been other posts on this forum of spouses and adult children bemoaning the sudden and uncharacteristically hyper-sexual behaviors of their LOs. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this along with everything else, but please contact a doctor for answers.