My mom is 90 and needs 24 hour assistance in my home. I am asking if she , as a veterans widow is she entitled to home care benefits, such as a person to sit with her when I need to shop or have a medical appointment for myself. She is in a wheelchair but can stand for short periods of time.
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You might want to scroll through the answers to see if there are other questions such as yours.
Checking the VA website is also a good resource, because questions such as a widow's eligibility vary by different classifications of veterans and those classification levels are often key to the question you posed.
You can also research to determine if your local county has a veterans' assistance department that can help with your search for assistance. If not, contact a local service organization such as the VFW or American Legion and ask which of their local organizations help veterans and their families qualify for benefits.
Good luck with your search.