You know who you are. You provide the 24/7 if the parent lives with you!
Sibling mails out of state lottery tickets for Mom to scratch off,
this has been going on for 2 years.
The big pay off????
About $6 bucks every time....:)
Lets Mail those $2 dollar winners back and keep this bullsh*t going......:)
Meanwhile, you wrote to the sibling THREE TIMES IN MAY.
"CAN YOU TAKE MOM FOR ONE WEEK THIS SUMMER"?????
NO RESPONSE.....
But hey......keep sending those winning scratch offs!!!!!!!
:)
But of course THEY know everything. Especially telling you how to do and run things. But of course they are never around to actually do it.
My mom has been gone for five years now but during the time I took care of her I used to shake my head at my one narc sister. She never did anything but when there were care meetings.( I think she attended one.) She came in with her notebook and pen acting like she was in charge. Or the times we called ambulances for my mom she'd be bustling around acting all important. She even flirted with one of the paramedics right in front of her husband while mom was being taken out in very serious condition. Nauseating.
While I know it's all over and I should have moved on and I have mostly. I still think back and get annoyed all over again. But this isn't anything new. My siblings have always treated me with a lack of respect. They all knew I was doing everything for mom and they just couldn't find it in themselves to give me any credit. To them I'll always be the scapegoat. I only see them at Christmas now but I see how they all try to relegate me back to what they are comfortable with which is little sis who they love to put down and treat like crap. The only difference now is I see it and let them know that it hasn't gone unnoticed where in the past I would just never say anything cause I didn't want to rock the boat.
I truly don't care anymore honestly. I don't need them in my life.