I live with my elder parents. My mom will tell stories of things that have occurred in her past in which she is very angry at the person in the story. She raises her voice and will shake her finger in my face as if I am that person with whom she is angry. It unnerves me to no end! I think she wants me to agree that the person is horrible. If I don't agree she gets even angrier. She will tell my father how horrible I was and then he gets stern with me. I am sure she has made up something to tell him that I did to "wrong" her. I do need to live with them as mom is almost blind and dad has some health issues and they provide me some financial support.
Good luck!
Carol
Until then--thanks for this forum fellow caregivers..
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