I do have a husband & 2 teenaged kids who are great but I've been caregiving for Mom in my home for the past 2 years after my only sibling died suddenly. Mom had dementia and other health issues. She really declined between Thanksgiving and New Year's Day on which she succumbed to her illnesses. I have a wonderful husband and 2 great kids, with whom I can spend more time now. But I really miss Mom and am not sure what to do now. Any advice?
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I too have just lost my Momma just 0ne month ago. I cared for her for 4 n half years. She was 89 when she went home to Jesus! The 1st 3 wks I was totally confused, thoughts going everywhere. I too lost my husband 10 months prior. Now, I'm grieving both of them. My head is clearer now so the tears are pouring out more. Just this morning, I reminded myself to celebrate in my mind the fact that we all made it! Me, my husband, who was my rock of support, and my Momma! We made it thru the huge challenge of taking care of an elder with alzheimers. Not a small task to say the least. My Momma made it too because thru it all she was super sweet, always loving everyone, cute as a button, one of the funniest people I know, a real trooper, doing as much as she physically could. I could go on and on. Yes, grieving is very important and I totally hate it! We can grieve and be happy for our blessings too. I will pray for you Dogmother3, please pray for me too. I believe prayer is powerful. And remember, we can still talk to our loved ones, I do.