I don't know much about my options. I live out of state and I have to go home. My mom refuses inpatient care, is refusing to follow pain med directives, and can't be left alone. What can I legally do? We are working with hospice but they said I can't force her in. They also said she can't be alone. What can I do?
I hope you are able to convince her to enter a hospice facility.
Are you her health care proxy?
You can discontinue hospice service and take her to the Emergency Room. Ask to speak to a Social Worker there and tell them this is a "social admit" and that there is no one to care for her at home.
Does mom have the funds to pay for 24/7 in-home care?
I have to agree. Maybe Adult Protection Services can help you.
I certainly hope that your attempts to move her into a facility will be successful.
You are extremely wise to realize that her care is too much for you to handle.
She absolutely needs to be placed in a facility. Best wishes to you and your family.